Feelings. Let’s be clear, feelings are very personal and in the mind of the feeler their feelings are correct. No one can ever tell someone how they feel or that their feelings are wrong.
Regardless of what the receiver thinks, he or she cannot tell the sender how they feel. Many times conflict gets caught up in the explosion of feelings. That explosion may actually unearth the true problem from the perspective of that person.
We can’t forget the other party in this conflict. They also have feelings which are personal, near and dear, just important and true to them. Thomas and Andy have a lifetime of experience of dealing with parties who have had these feelings.
That insight and experience, not theory, allows us to gain the trust and confidence of the parties that their truths are heard by all. We are truly committed to the following, if it (your feelings) are important to you, they are important to us.
But know this. While we fully understand and respect the individual’s feelings, we harken back to the immortal words of the rock band, The Eagles, “there are three sides to every story, yours, mine and the cold-hard truth”. While this provides a little humor, we at I & I Resolutions cannot emphasize enough, not every conflict is solvable. However, we can assure you that we will do everything in our ability to make sure you have identified the proper conflict.
Take a few moments to speak with us. It could make a positive difference in your workplace.
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